Fireworks With FemalesBeing shy around girls is embarrassing. In fact, most guys who are shy when facing girls are so embarrassed that they will never admit to these feelings. Unfortunately, not admitting the feelings means not getting help and never overcoming the problem. Don’t let that be you! If you are shy on a girl’ presence then it is time to do something about it.

Digging Deep for Reasons

Why do you think you are shy around girls? This may seem like an overly simplistic question, but when you really dig deep you will find that your reasons are more complex than you thought. Consider just a few reasons many guys often find they are not shy:

  1. Fear of rejection
  2. Feeling inadequate
  3. Low self confidence
  4. Fear of commitment

Some guys are fearful of being rejected so they find themselves shaking in their boots when a girl they find attractive is around. It’s not that they don’t want to interact with her and ask her out. It’s just that they don’t want to be turned down. The fear of rejection overwhelms their desire to interact with the girl.

The fear of commitment works in a similar manner. Some guys are extremely nervous about finding a girl they will want to commit to and they run from that scary prospect. They will come off shy around girls because of that deeper fear of falling hard and committing.

Yet, most guys suffer from the second and third reasons listed. They feel the girl is out of their league or that they are somehow not enough to attract the girls they really want to be with. The problem is not the girl, but their own concept of themselves.

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Do this exercise to see what may be making you so shy with girls around. Think of one basic reason you think why you are shy in the presence of girls and say it out loud. For instance, “I am shy around girls because I never know what to say to them.”

Now, ask yourself “why?” From the above example you may say “because I don’t want them to think I am stupid.” Then ask yourself “why?” again. You might say “because I don’t want to be laughed at.”

Keep asking yourself “why?” and giving your first gut responses until you come to a realization of what is deep within your shyness around girls.

Overcoming Shyness

There is no simple answer for many guys who are shy with having girls around. It isn’t something you are likely to wake up tomorrow and be completely cured from, but there are some things you can do to stop the shyness from paralyzing you when interactions with girls occur:

  1. Get active in your daily life so you always have something to talk about.
  2. Set goals and achieve them so you boost your own self confidence and sense of worth.
  3. Make it a point to talk to girls every day so it doesn’t feel as scary or new.
  4. Hang out with female friends more so you meet more girls in more relaxed social situations.
  5. Keep your physical appearance as nice as possible every time you walk out the door so you are always confident in that area when talking with a girl.

Remember, being shy around girls isn’t something that will be cured overnight. It is just something you have to explore, understand, and work to overcome in time.